After several hours of long intimate chats with men I decided to write a book just for women with the real thoughts and gestures of what men really want, like, and desire from us. Often we think we are doing it all to please him when we are really not so to all the women in their forties this special book is a gift from me to you. Don't lose what you already have and don't let yourself go no matter how much weight you have gained you can still be very alluring to your mate.