Coming out of the closet is the process of accepting yourself as a lesbian and figuring out how open you want to be about your sexual orientation. Some don’t really understand about being lesbian and it may be hard to find a listening ear that can be supportive. Some friends will accept you. Others may turn away from you or tell other people without your permission.Struggling with one's sexual attractions is very common and not just with young people. Relax and give yourself time to explore your feelings. Determining your sexual orientation is not that simple but once you get the hang of it you would be glad you made your choice.What gets you more excited, the idea of kissing a man or kissing a woman?This book may be of help to you.